bab 46 - purest of pain

dear the one who i could call a friend.

thanks to be my friend. I will be married sooner and as time goes very fast, i need friend to calm me down. you know what, getting married is not easy and it makes me nervous all the time. some people could pretend to be cool, but as for me, i'm very nervous till die. Whatever..

Erm..thank god to give me friends, who always make me smiles, make my day better. But some of them, always ignoring me till i couldn't find why. to they who i call friends, i want to share a poem i received this morning by a forwarded email. it brings me to write about this.

The greatest pain in life
is not to die,
but to be ignored.
To lose the person you hope
to another who doesn't care at all.
To have someone you care so about so much throw a party...
and not tell you about it.
When your favorite person on earth
neglects to invite you to his celebration.
To have people think that you don't care.

The greatest pain in life,
is not to die,
but to be forgotten.
To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
To never get a call from a friend,
just saying "hi".
When you show someone your innermost thoughts
and they laugh in your face.
For friends to always be
too busy to console you
when you need someone to lift your spirits.
When it seems like the only person who cares about you,
is you.

Life is full of pain,
but does it ever get better?
Will people ever care about each other,
and make time for those who are in need?
Each of us has a part to play
in this great show we call life.
Each of us has a duty to mankind
to tell our friends we love them.
If you do not care about your friends
you will not be punished.
You will simply be ignored...
forgotten...
as you have done to others.


This poem was written by a young girl who committed suicide some years ago. Perhaps if the people surrounding her had shown a little more love, and had paid more attention to her, her death could have been prevented. Remember that when going through life, you can't judge a sad, lonely, or suicidal person by their facial expression. You need to get to know each person you come in contact with, cherish your friendship with them, and show them that you care. Don't regret when tomorrow never comes with their smiles.

Please friend..please being friend!